Monday, June 8, 2009

The Things You can Learn from Walking Across the Street

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The

difference between whether you say, 'I wish I would have,'

or 'I'm glad I did,'

at the end of your life is whether or not

you take DECISIVE ACTION during

your life.

Chris Widener



For years I have

been living across the street from a couple who

always had a perfectly

groomed yard. I often admired their passion

for keeping it so beautifully

catered to.


One day I saw the man who lived there walking around

with a

cane. I came to the conclusion that he must have had hip surgery



and that he was healing. Then many months later I didn't see

him

anymore. Yet, his family would drive up in several cars every week-



end and do the mowing and trimming.

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Then, one day a hospital equipment company

truck pulled up and

delivered a hospital bed. For days the family would

come and go

staying hours and hours. Some of them would cut the trees

and

bushes and others would lay out mulch and

rake.




And then that day came...when the equipment truck

came back

and retrieved the bed. My heart sunk. Knowing that this was a

sign.


Not more than a few days after my grandmother's big 90th



birthday party, I received a call from my grandmother. She

asked

if I knew the address to a certain family in my area. She told me

that

her and the woman had been friends in their youth and that her



husband had passed away.


Instantly I knew, that must

have been the gentlemen that lived across

the street from me. I told my

grandmother the story and she said,

"You must walk over there and

introduce yourself.

She is one of my dearest

friends and I want

her to know that you are my grand-daughter."


This past weekend we

had a city wide garage sale day and there

across the street was my

grandmother's friend sitting out

with her daughter with a few items out in her

driveway.


So - I walked across the street. "Hello, I am your terrible

neighbor

who lives across the street." I said.

"I feel so terrible

that I haven't come over

sooner to introduce myself....but I had to on the

request of my

grandmother."

The smiling woman looked at me

and without any moments to

spare said,

"Who is your

grandmother?" I told her and she lit up like a bright

shining light. It was

awesome.

She said, "Your grandmother and I had so much

fun

working together when I was younger.

She trained me at the job we worked

together at. I was only 17."

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She went on to tell me how great

my

grandmother was and how she made her feel so at ease



with the new job.

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But the thing that really got my attention was

the way she "lit up"

every time she mentioned how much fun they

had....

It was as if she was remembering the times they spent together



as if it were happening all over again.

Her energy was so

contagious. She must have said, "we had

so much fun together" at least 4

times. And every time she would

"glow" and giggle like a little

girl.

I visited with her for almost an hour, then went back across the street



and called my grandmother.


She was so "tickled" that I

had talked to her long time friend.

After catching her up on our

conversation,

I had to ask...."Grandma, why did she

giggle

every time she talked about how much fun you

had?"


Grandma laughed! Then she told me about what the "girls"



would do after work. They would go to one of the restaurants in town



and sit and drink cocktails and laugh for hours

before going

home. She said they would laugh and laugh

for hours and it WAS so much

fun.

There it was - Oh my gosh - there was that same

giggle...

the one my neighbor lady had. It was great!!


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Hearing my grandmother at the



age of 90 giggling like a teenager.

After talking to her for an

hour, I finally got off the phone and

realized that I had brought these two

woman

back to a time that was so special to them.

And I was

so "Thankful!"

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See, it's not just the energy we

create for ourselves that is important.

It is just as important to give others

that "energy"!!

Have a fabulous week and remember....we are All

connected...

we really are!!!

Attract Abundance in Every Area of YOUR

Life


Love & Light - Success :)

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